Heartburn in my soul.
As predicted Logan and I have come to an agreement and I am pulling this post. If we've talked before, email me and we can discuss what you missed.
Logan is currently on the phone with his parents who feel I have dishonored the family with not only this post but with the technicality of my mother in law not speaking to me, as was printed in the paper. My in laws feel very strongly that that point dishonors my mother in law. She likes to be the victim, and because I chose not to speak to her ever again....she was the victim and I was the victimizer.
Let's clarify that point again just for you, In Laws and for all the Detroit News readers who come here:
I STOPPED SPEAKING TO MY MOTHER IN LAW! SHE DID NOT STOP TALKING TO ME! PLEASE KNOW THAT! BUT I'M NOT ALLOWED TO TALK ABOUT IT! I CAN'T TELL YOU WHY! I CAN TELL YOU I AM STILL ANGRY ABOUT IT! BUT I CAN'T TELL YOU WHY OR MY HUSBAND'S FAMILY WILL FREAK OUT!
Right now my husband is on the phone, telling his father he won't divorce me because of what I write on my website.
That's a novel idea Summers Family. Also Logan's reminding them that he's not in control of me. Huh. Seriously? He's not in control of me. I wonder what kind of marriage they have? They control each other? Weird.
Mr and Mrs Summers (and your freakish witch of a daughter),
I think it's important for you to remember that I love your son. I hate you with as much passion as you hate me. But I love your son and I thank God every day he is in my life. I don't know how you raised him but you did. You created a loving man and a wonderful father and like I've said several times on this website that you so busily police, I am so incredibly blessed to have him and the children we created. It's so sad you can't be happy for that. Be happy that you still see him and you still see our kids, your grandkids, in spite of your behavior.
Be annoyed I hate you and I have this forum to discuss in vague terms that fact. But be happy your son has found a woman who completes him even if she doesn't complete you. Be happy he has two children he created with that woman and that they all have each other.
I know that we can't get along and I know that I will always have rage at you for the way you have treated me and you will always have rage at me for the way you think I have treated you. But move on. Don't read this site. Focus on keeping a relationship with your son and your grandchildren. I know they love you and I have never called you bad grandparents. I have never told my children not to love you. The way you love my babies has always been the one thing I can say with happiness about you. 'They love my kids. At least they do that.'
I've told Maddie and Max I'm glad they get to see you and that I'm sorry we don't get along anymore so I can't spend time with all of you.
Be grown ups. Stop reading this site. Stop allowing my vague references to you and the relationship we had that cut me deeply control you and the relationship you have with your son.
Remember what God says about married people. Ask your pastor about it...you know the one you shared my deepest darkest secrets with. Yes, that one.
Good night. God Bless.