The Summers' Welcome To Summer Dinner Party
Hey, depression got you down? You should throw a party.
I've wanted to have a dinner party in our back yard to welcome summer. This year it was especially important to host a party because since we left the Dream House I've been more reluctant to host parties. I just haven't been feeling it.
For months I've been collecting ideas and inspiration. But mostly I didn't do anything to get ready for the party until 3 days before the event. I point this out because it wasn't entirely pleasant but on the bright side it goes to show how reasonably easy it can be to throw a dinner party for 10.
I knew I wanted blue hydrangea and a really bright pink flower to go with it. I wanted a menu we could prepare and serve outside and I wanted to eat at a big round table. My round table dreams were dashed into the ground by a miscommunication with the place I reserved the table from in April, prime wedding season and a car that's not big enough to haul a 60" round table. Darn.
I used the hanging lanterns I bought to use at our New Year's Eve party. I got them from Paper Lantern Store. Unfortunately the large pink one I bought came with the wrong size metal brace so we used orange instead. Logan hung a cable from the porch out to another cable he strung between two of our pine trees. We're adding a string of lights to it and will leave it up year round. Cost: $25. I may buy the nylon version to keep outside for most of the summer.
The blue hydrangea I bought at our local flower shop weren't quite as blue as I'd wanted.
But they also had peonies and peonies make me want to cuddle. With them. I know, it's awkward now.
My camera is still broken. It's incredibly painful. Thankfully my guests had nice cameras and brought them for me to use.
There was soda and Sierra Nevada to drink, but also other yummy things.
Like Helen Jane's White Sangria.
Maddie stamped the napkin rings. Ideally I would have used real flatware but I own 8 sets and had 10 guests so we went this route.
We made the award-winning fish tacos from that Beyond The Shaker Challenge dinner we attended this winter. Logan made these little cards for me to write what each of the toppings for the tacos were. Each card said something we love about summer.
Our friend Phil is The Grumpy Barista. He roasts coffee beans and makes a delicious cup of coffee at Tasi in downtown Royal Oak. He makes a fantastic BBQ sauce and also a fire roasted tomato salsa that makes you want to marry him even though he's kind of grumpy and you're a straight man. I'm speaking from Logan's perspective here.
We asked him to make a batch for us to give our guests as parting gifts. Logan made the label and it looks fabulous.
Another of our friends was having a birthday on Monday. His wife made delicious mexican ice cream and I bought sparklers to stand in as candles. The wishes you make on sparklers are a lot better.
Or so I hear.












Lovely. All of it.
Posted by: Jennifer | 2010.06.28 at 02:10 PM
I wish I lived near you, so we could be friends and I could come to your parties.
Posted by: Robin | 2010.06.28 at 02:20 PM
Next time you have a dinner party, let me know. Not so I can randomly show up to gawk at how wonderful it is or anything. No, no. Ha ha. Don't be ridiculous.
Posted by: christy | 2010.06.28 at 02:24 PM
I so look forward to your party pictures! You create such a lovely atmosphere - just wow! Did you put the little batteries lights in the lanterns, or just use them as is?
Posted by: amy | 2010.06.28 at 02:38 PM
I so look forward to your party pictures! You create such a lovely atmosphere - just wow! Did you put the little batteries lights in the lanterns, or just use them as is?
Posted by: amy | 2010.06.28 at 02:38 PM
I so look forward to your party pictures! You create such a lovely atmosphere - just wow! Did you put the little batteries lights in the lanterns, or just use them as is?
Posted by: amy | 2010.06.28 at 02:38 PM
I so look forward to your party pictures! You create such a lovely atmosphere - just wow! Did you put the little batteries lights in the lanterns, or just use them as is?
Posted by: amy | 2010.06.28 at 02:38 PM
I so look forward to your party pictures! You create such a lovely atmosphere - just wow! Did you put the little batteries lights in the lanterns, or just use them as is?
Posted by: amy | 2010.06.28 at 02:38 PM
Your parties always look so fabulous. I'm jealous of your party plannin' skillz!
Posted by: Katie | 2010.06.28 at 02:48 PM
Was this an adult only party?
Posted by: Jill | 2010.06.28 at 03:23 PM
Was this an adult only party?
Posted by: Jill | 2010.06.28 at 03:23 PM
It looks amazing! I wish I had the skills (and courage mostly) to do something like this.
Posted by: Monica | 2010.06.28 at 03:56 PM
Those peonies are glorious.
Posted by: whoorl | 2010.06.28 at 06:22 PM
Wow, I'm impressed, such a pretty dinner party! It sounds like you're kicking depression in the derriere, good for you!
Posted by: Kimberly | 2010.06.28 at 06:59 PM
I love that you and your family do things like this. :) And I hope the rest of your summer is a happy one.
Posted by: Val | 2010.06.28 at 07:23 PM
Peonies are just about my favorite flower - all blowzy & gorgeous. Sigh.
Posted by: The Bug | 2010.06.28 at 07:41 PM
So despite the orange instead of pink lantern, the not-so blue flowers, the rectangular table, the plastic forks and the broken camera--people had a great time?
Posted by: Robin | 2010.06.28 at 10:00 PM
I sure hope so.
Posted by: Melissa Summers | 2010.06.28 at 10:03 PM
I love peonies too. Just planted a bush just a couple of weeks ago that I got on clearance at Home Depot. I sure hope it produces flowers next spring for me to cuddle with.
Posted by: Amy | 2010.06.28 at 10:27 PM
You throw such fabulous parties. I must do some studying here when it's my turn to host "Come Dine With Me" for my friends again.
Posted by: Sarah | 2010.06.29 at 04:17 AM
Delightful! You always go the extra mile for your guests. I bet they talk about your parties for ages afterward.
Posted by: maggie | 2010.06.29 at 09:24 AM
It looks beautiful. You did a great job. I want the recipe for the fish tacos you were talking about! Please...
Posted by: Mitzi | 2010.06.29 at 09:46 AM
Peonies make me want to cuddle too! Maybe someday we could hang out and canoodle with flowers? In a totally unobtrusive way, of course.
Posted by: AngstyJen | 2010.06.29 at 10:09 AM
I've never been to a party like this. So coordinated and pretty. I only read about them in magazines and on line. Yours have all looked lovely.
I would copy this exactly, except St. Louis is far too hot for outdoor parties unless you also happen to have a pool. Sigh.
Can you throw a fall party so I can copy that :)?
Posted by: Sara | 2010.06.29 at 10:09 AM
Damn, girl! If that's what you can do when depression has you down, I can't wait to see what you put together when you're feeling better.
You've inspired me. Perhaps I'll have a party of my own when my meds kick in. I think I'll call it Sheila's Fluoxetine Fiesta. Ole!
Posted by: getsheila | 2010.06.29 at 10:26 AM
This looks absolutely lovely. Now you're making me wish I had a friend who made salsa, too.
Posted by: Alyce | 2010.06.29 at 01:42 PM
Fantastic! When I think "only started preparing 3 days before" I think "decided on the menu and shopped, and made sure there were enough of the 'nice' paper napkins." I just get my guests real liquored up though so they don't notice I don't have your talents.
Posted by: Anne | 2010.06.29 at 02:29 PM
Beautiful! Your party posts always make me think, "Hey, I should host a party! It looks so fun and easy!" but I'm a little bit too chicken to follow through and do it. Probably I just want to come to YOUR parties. I wouldn't even mind if you cuddled the peonies.
Posted by: adequatemom | 2010.06.29 at 05:00 PM
It looks so beautiful! What a great way to welcome summer :-)
Posted by: Flaneuse | 2010.07.01 at 06:05 AM
That White Sangria is the tastiest, isn't it? What an absolutely GORGEOUS event.
(And next party? I'm hiring a high school student to photograph so I can join the high-fiving.)
Posted by: Helen Jane | 2010.07.01 at 05:30 PM
The set up for your party looks amazing, well for someone who never entertains it certainly does anyway. I think I need to get control in my back yard and turn my back veranda into an area that we can entertain and certainly an area that the girls feel they can set up and invite people around (but this will only be when it's summer as the verandah faces south and as it's only small it lets the rain and wind come in) Thank you for sharing
Posted by: katrina | 2010.07.01 at 05:55 PM
What a gorgeous party. I wish I was so talented. I also wish that I was able to have an outdoor party to welcome summer, but here in Sugar Land, TX, it is just too hot. I will be going to Zeeland, MI in a couple of days to visit family, and I can't wait for the wonderful weather.
Posted by: Missi | 2010.07.01 at 11:28 PM
Your friends are lucky. Wish I lived in Royal Oak!
Posted by: Robin | 2010.07.02 at 03:11 PM
Your friends are lucky. Wish I lived in Royal Oak!
Posted by: Robin | 2010.07.02 at 03:11 PM
Hi, We bought a "Soji Lantern" over/down here in Ann Arbor at Downtown Home and Garden that is solar powered and nylon--no batteries and light every night. We've enjoyed them quite a lot (we bought it last year and keep it outside all the time, except ingthe dead of winter) and it still works. More importantly, my son hasn't treated it as a pinata. Best wishes for you.
Posted by: Sarah | 2010.07.03 at 01:20 PM
I'm so glad you had a beautiful party to lift your spirits! Welcome to summer!
Posted by: Thea | 2010.07.04 at 10:30 AM
hope you're doing ok.
party pics looked awesome! we had our annual 4th of july party...not as pretty but, it was fun. hope yours was too!
Posted by: melissa | 2010.07.05 at 10:22 AM
good
good
Posted by: mani | 2010.07.07 at 03:00 AM